The difference between negotiating with a person for one night of pain and/or D/s, and negotiating for long term play, is huge. Both have their rewards and challenges, and both require very different approaches. It comes down to getting to know the other person and asking the right questions ““ but in the nonconventional relationships of kink what are the right questions? Too many people think that a Top and a bottom are compatible just because they are both kinky.
This workshop is about knowing the right questions to ask and how to understand the answers. We will also cover, among other things: negotiating in or out of role, yes/no lists, and assessing mutual standards for acceptable risk.